sometimes happiness comes from the most irrational things…or situations..and life takes me by surprise.

a) Gender/Sexuality (homosexuality, gay marriages, etc)

b) Education  (broadly speaking: our kids are not learning anything in schools)

c) Joblessness or layoffs

d) Healthcare

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Now let us simply with a clear mind look at these four issues. The most famous catch-phrase is gay-marriage or homosexuality among politicians to gain voters’ votes, by either condemning or supporting gay people and their right to live equally. The very stupidity is that it is an oft repeated ritual, homosexuality has existed and will continue to exist because we all have male and female genitalia coupled with inquiring and creative minds, which results in ? Yes it results in experimentation, personal choice, mental gender being different from physical gender and what not. Let us not forget homosexuality has existed a lot longer than religions have been around. Religions – yes man made concepts. Like Gucci purses and GMC’s, you have religions and followers of those religions.

Moving on to distraction number 2: Education. People (whether young or old) can learn or possess the ability to learn where ever and whenever, given that their personal willingness to learn is involved in the process. However, education or decline of learning in students in America is an inflated problem. Are we looking at the people contributing to the decline in learning?? Such as parents, mothers, fathers, siblings, media, technology distractions, a lot of freedom or side-effects of democracy, etc? All these are a cause of decline in students learning ability because they have distractions. Simple. Our problem is that we tend to compartmentalize our thinking and focus on specific things instead of maintaining an abstract view of the situation. Oh the child has a learning disability? Really? Not really, maybe it is something else? Have you as a parent or adult traumatized your child or the young people, has society, politics, and other exposures negatively influenced the child’s development? The question to ask is how are we part of the problem before we begin heated and prolonged self-masturbatory discussions on the issues existing in the United States. Teen-pregnancy is on a rise; oh gee! That’s swell, how did you make that happen now? Let’s see now, lack of adult supervision, unsupervised internet time, giving excess technological tools to teens, not spending enough time with them — fostering an environment conducive to start sleeping together early with no protection, that’s what you and I do – that resulted in this. Democracy is great, but not all rights are well-intended if they do not have wisdom embedded in them. We chose to opt the easy way out, quick-fixes, like microwave dinners, and voila! There is our solution. The quicker the solution is come up with the more highly I would doubt its ability to succeed.

The 3rd issue pertaining to lack of jobs or layoffs is discussed, talked about, causes are presented, reasons identified yet no progress occurs, what really happens is the people who make money on the higher end of the pay scale continue to make that money and that’s it. Simple. We will just ignore that social inequality exists, that you need to wear designer shit to feel accepted in social situations, or else you are the outsider who does not fit. Of course who set the stage for such a crappy mentality, why us of course : ) We are the problem. Essentially we created this shitload of a bubble of what we call economic failure, sociological failure, decline of family structure in the U.S. and misinterpretation of feminism that has resulted in a rise of single -females with inflated and unrealistic demands from the males. Hurray Women! You have your freedom but it is irresponsible freedom, because you continue to have children with random men and make your children suffer from growing up in dysfunctional households.  We are all accountable for our actions because the actions affect everyone around us. So much for feminism. Feminism is just an example of a great idea that has been executed very badly.

The 4th issue, healthcare is like being placed in a room full of people talking loudly in multiple languages, arguing and trying to be right at the same time yet failing to comprehend anything uttered except what they are speaking. Healthcare is and will continue to be used as a common catch-phrase in politics, debates will continue and no positive influence or impact will be witnessed by people who really need help. As always we created the problem, too much mechanics, paper-work, structure, and less and less of human comprehension. We are truly losing or have lost touch with humanity and our essence. Dehumanization begins when people no longer live in the present moment and continue to impose their beliefs on each other. All major disasters owe their conception to an absence of accountability, empathy, wisdom, and of course self-gratification.

Where did the woman go wrong? Why does she play dumb, weak, use her body and sex to buy her way through life? In some primitive cultures women were considered goddeses and respected for their ability to procreate and further human civilization, but somewhere along the way females began to be viewed through a crass lens. Sex sells, and sure as hell it is sold everywhere to everyone. No product is launched in the market without some sexual or female innuendo attached. But women are content to have their gender raped and disrespected. They prefer to lie and live a lie than face themselves just so they dont lose their current status, positions, or relationships. Authenticity is so rare among contemporary women that it is a shame.

I can love you without resorting to
the corny cliches of
sweet utterances,
holding hands
or clinging to your manly strength,

I can close my eyes
and sleep
in your night
while you deconstruct the stars,

to contemplate upon this
endearment
such a love that is not loving
but holds me close
to your heart.

the tremors of a disturbed heart
that lies awake when sleeping
in whose terror does it seek freedom
this endlessness of existence
when it cannot fathom the color of this season
such is the music of this hour
wayward and lost like a beautiful poem,

for words are not what they mean to be
the intent arises from a deeper need
like that of hunger when the body pleads
its strength to decipher a logic of an ever gnawing
cry, behold her consummation – the hour of love
when the lover and the beloved unites.